Stasia

Stasia

Anastasia (Stasia) Janelle 1997 - 2010

I remember it very clearly, possibly because it was exactly the wrong thing to do, but as I walked home on that fall day in 1997 one flier and one poorly thought out decision turned into almost 13 years of love. I had just worked my last shift at the local supermarket and had no job prospects in front of me. On my way home I passed a flier for free puppies. It’s not like the small mountain town I grew up in was lacking for these sorts of fliers but something about the little black fuzzball in the photo called out to me and I was sure we should be together. Some convincing Heather and a trip to the vet later and that afternoon was the first day I met Stasia.

Stasia was my first dog. Our family had always had dogs but Stasia was the first dog that I had ever had on my own. Stasia has seen me through many phases of my life. She has been my riding partner, my hiking partner and my camping buddy. She was by my side through many storms, needing comfort during the physical ones and providing comfort for the emotional ones. She moved with me to Denver to Rochester and back again. Stasia was there to greet us after Heather and I got married, she was there to greet us when we brought K home from the hospital and again when we brought R home from the hospital. As the kids have grown she has been as much at part of their lives as she has mine and all while being so patient and protective.

This week Heather, the kids, and I are in Florida on vacation. We got a call from Heather’s mom, who is watching her for us, to tell us that she passed away in her sleep last night. For the first time in a long time one of my oldest and dearest friends won’t be there to greet me when I get home.

I love and miss you Stasia.

(Not) a published author.

If you’re a rabid fan of greeblemonkey.com ( and why wouldn’t you be? ), you may have noticed a certain someone ( ME! ) got the opportunity to write a guest post on that site. If you’re a new reader of greeblemonkey.com you should know that it is the lovechild of @greeblemonkey and the internet so go check it out, stay a while and read, click, view, say “awwww snap!” Finally, after reviewing with my team of poorly trained lawyers ( also known as the voices in my head ), I have been advised not to refer to myself as a published author. That is all.

Travelin’ Man

Throughout April I have been back and forth across this country twice and by the time we see May I will have only been home 15 out of the 30 days in April. It was exhausting and awesome all at the same time.

First stop was to see some old friends in Boston and Rochester. It was great to spend some time visiting them and catching up on their lives. In both cities I was able to take advantage of the spring weather and do some shooting, click the photo to see the rest.

Blue Fade

Blue Fade, one of the images from the northeast.

Just a few short days after getting back I packed up the photo gear, added in some camping gear, and jetted off to Death Valley and Antelope Valley with my new friend, Jen Yu. I cannot thank Jen enough for inviting me on this trip. I had never been to either place and that, combined with a fun companion, made for a great trip.

Desert Gold, one of the images from Death Valley

Desert Gold, one of the images from Death Valley

And finally, last week I was back on a plane to New York. This time it was working with a client and the week flew by but I was still able to get some photos taken.

8:30 at the Shake Shack, one of the photos from New York.

I’m now home again, at least for the next 12 days, and am looking forward to catching up with people here as well as doing some photography locally.

Body Worlds, a dad’s experience.

Yesterday, faced with a cold and rainy day, we decided to take a trip to the Denver Museum of Nature and Science where I had seen that the Body Worlds exhibit was showing. The museum used to be an old standby for us on days like this one but since moving back to Boulder we had not gone. If you haven’t been to the museum, make time, it’s a great place for kids and something you should see as an adult. A couple of tips if you go: 1) If it’s busy and the parking lot is full, park across the baseball fields in the small lot. The kids loved running around in the grass as we headed into and left the museum. 2) The membership + tickets to Body Worlds is only $5 more than a day pass and tickets to Body Worlds, get the membership, go back.

Limer Gymnast with Organs Copyright: Gunther von Hagens, Institute for Plastination, Heidelberg, Germany, www.bodyworlds.com

So after a walk through the museum we headed into the Body Works exhibit. Body Works is an exhibition of real human bodies and body parts that are posed and then preserved through the process of plastination. The results can be displayed in the open air and viewed without the distorting effects of other preservation methods. The bodies are posed doing all types of activities including hurdles, archery, figure skating, and gymnastics so that you can see how the body changes as we move. In addition to that various layers are removed or separated to allow you to see into the body. The experience is very cool and allows for laymen to see parts of the body that you would normally only see if you were learning to be a doctor.

Heart, opened longitudinally Copyright: Gunther von Hagens, Institute for Plastination, Heidelberg, Germany, www.bodyworlds.com

As much as I wanted to see this exhibit for myself, it was important to me to bring the kids and involve them in what we were seeing. Before we went I explained to them that these were real human bodies that were displayed as a result of their choice to donate their bodies to science after death. If they had been uncomfortable with this we wouldn’t have gone but neither one seemed to be bothered by it. Once we entered it became pretty apparent that R, our 5 year old, was not very interested in what was being shown. I’m not sure if he was having a hard time connecting what he was seeing to other human bodies or if he was just tired but every time I tried to explain what we were looking at his eyes kind of glazed over. However, the 8 year old, K, was connecting with everything that I was explaining and was very interested. Being able to point to the exhibits and then touch on K’s body the corresponding bone or muscle really seemed to set what she was seeing in reality and excited her. The displays of the blood vessels of various body parts and animals not only peaked her interest but, for me, really set in reality just how extensive our vascular system is. Overall Heather, K and I really enjoyed the Body Works exhibit. Unfortunately R just wasn’t into it although as I write this he remembers what is in these pictures and seems interested.

Blood Vessel Configuration of the Head and Brain Copyright: Gunther von Hagens, Institute for Plastination, Heidelberg, Germany, www.bodyworlds.com

Out of the 200+ people that were in the exhibit our children were the youngest. As such, I feel the need to give a few warnings to other parents who may be planning on going. My first warning is to gauge the interest of your children in this. It will take you 1.5 to 2 hours to go through the exhibit. If you are able to pay attention, it’s amazing. If your kid is bored or freaks out, you will get to pay for a quick walk through a dark hall glancing at the things you wish you could examine. My second warning is that every body part is on display. If you are not comfortable talking with your kids about every part of the body, including genitalia, you may not want to take your kids. We have always tried to be very open and honest with our kids in this area but I understand that some parents choose to wait to have these sorts of discussions. My last warning is that the display is the result of people and animals dying. Your kids may have questions that result in unpleasant conversations afterwards. K was curious and concerned about the baby skull that was on display showing the skull in it’s pre-fused state. We explained that not all babies survive and that some mommies and daddies choose to donate the body to science to help doctors better understand the body. This seemed to help her understand.

All warnings aside, this is a great exhibit and I am considering going back to take more time. For me it solidified in reality many of the things we are taught about human physiology through drawings and concepts. If you go I suggest calling the museum to find out when there is a less busy time to go. It was very crowded when we went on a Saturday at 5:45pm.

Another flight under my belt and this one was weird.

This week I was in New York with a client and I just walked in the door from flying home. My flight was so full of oddities that I just had to write some down.

First of all, the coolest thing about the flight was that we flew around a very active thunderstorm and I was treated to a spectacular light show out of my window. The thunderhead was below and off to the side of us so you could see stars above it and this massive mushroom cloud below with a very active lightning storm.

While in flight I looked up and noticed the path at the bulkhead was blocked by a cart pulled across it and the flight attendant was dutifully watching all of us. Shortly after that the pilot came out of the bathroom and started chatting up the flight attendant. I thought that was wierd but whatever. A little bit later the other pilot came out and did the same thing only he chatted up the flight attendant for much longer than the first guy. I hadn’t seen those guys leave the cockpit in flight since 9/11.

Finally, about half way through the flight, a flight attendant got on the PA and gave us all a very long and stern lecture about smoking on the plane and how it endangered us all. All I could think was “Who in the hell tries to smoke on a plane? That crap has been outlawed since I was a kid.”

Weird